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My Goals for 2020

In my last post, I talked about setting goals and intentions for the new year. This is always a challenge to even find the time to do and is a hard project for me to face. I thought about what I wanted most from 2020. What would my updated business goals and my personal goals look like this year? When I sat down to write out some intentions, my personal goals were taking over my thoughts.

Writing down goals is the first step and taking action comes next but many don’t know where to start. Taking action is another obstacle to overcome. I suggest starting with one goal and make small changes over time. Each small habit will build on another. After a while, you will feel more confident and ready to tackle other goals.

My First Challenge of This Year

Because I always strive to be real and transparent with my readers, I would like to share some of my struggles in this Blog. Again, I always believe that everything you experience sets you up to learn and grow and then eventually share with others.  So, here is my truth… I have gained a lot of weight in the past several years and have honestly felt horrible about myself. I feel like this extra weight is holding me back from being the best I can be as a Massage Therapist, Coach, partner, and “bonus” mom. There, I said it. Time to make some changes so I am putting this out there to be accountable because I believe that is the first step. Plus, it’s always good to share your goals with someone!

Right now, I am so overwhelmed by the fact that I have about 50 pounds to lose. Yes, I will admit it, I am overweight and unhealthy wellness coach. You can have all the knowledge in the world but that alone is not enough to produce long-lasting changes. It’s been haunting me for years and I finally think it’s time to get serious. The past couple of years has been challenging, being a caregiver at home and work has led to burn out and not taking care of myself.  I feel old, out of shape and unhealthy and it is not helping my health issues at all.  When I look in the mirror I don’t recognize myself..at all.

Ready For a Change

So this is it. I am admitting this to all of you. I am ready for a change. A serious change. It’s time to get that jazzy Jill back before I go off the deep end. Yes, my nickname from college was Jazzy! It’s time to become the best version of myself and move forward with my business goals as well. I feel like I am being held back and I am the only one who can spark the change.

For motivation, I answered my own discovery coaching questions and share the answers with you so you can join me on my journey. I have the knowledge and the support around me so it is time to dive in and JUST DO IT. It’s scary and embarrassing but I need to do this for myself and then hope it makes a positive impact on those around me especially my loved ones. I am an introvert and I tend to be more of a private person so this is not easy for me to share. Here it goes…

My Discovery Answers

If you could wave a magic wand, and really get what you want in the next 6 or 12 months, what would that look like?  To lose 50 pounds, feel healthier, lean, and comfortable in my body and my clothes. I want to decrease my body fat, get stronger, and have more energy by adopting an anti-inflammatory meal plan and exercise program I can stick to that is not too restrictive or overwhelming.

When you reach this goal, what will having that do for you? Losing this weight will help lower my anxiety, improve Fibromyalgia symptoms, increase my energy, and make me happier so I can be a more positive example for my family and others.

What’s stopping you or slowing you down from having the desired outcome right now? Fibromyalgia symptoms, emotional eating patterns, gut issues, food addiction, self-doubt, fear.

How has that impacted your daily life? Being overweight has affected my confidence personally and professionally. I move more slowly, am less flexible, weak and it’s hard to work out. I feel really uncomfortable in my clothes and most of them don’t fit right now.

How does it make you feel? Does it make you feel better or worse? It makes me feel much older than I am. I feel ashamed, angry and frustrated.

What’s the Plan

For so long I thought I could do it on my own. After all of my training and education, I should know how to get into shape and make my own nutrition plan, right? Well, it is really hard without support so I decided I need to get some help from other professionals. I already belong to a gym but I needed some extra direction so I signed up with a personal trainer close to my house who is helping me with mindest, workouts, and nutrition.

Fitness & Nutrition Goals

My first goal is to focus on getting back to exercising 5 days per week and then slowly make changes in my diet. One thing at a time. I tend to get so overwhelmed if I do too much at once so I am taking baby steps. Workouts first, then more focus on nutrition in a few weeks. I am starting to follow a balanced meal plan and trying to plan meals out as much as I can for now.  Just knowing I need to be accountable to someone is a huge step forward for me.

My trainer had a great idea to buy a calendar and mark a check every day I do some kind of physical activity. This will help me see how much I am doing and hopefully start to build up the habit. After all, who doesn’t love checking things off to show they are completed!

My goal is to work out with my trainer once per week and then 4 other days either at the gym or at home. I love watching YouTube videos so I do that at home when time permits. Some of my favorites are Jessica Smith, Leslie Sansone, PopSugar and Fitness Blender. I like a good mix of walking, strength, yoga and interval training workouts.

What goals are you working on for this new year? Please share them with me and let me know how you are managing your goals. Until next time…stay healthy and positive and say a quick little prayer for me as well.

xoxo

Jill DeMasi is a Lifestyle Blogger, Licensed Massage Therapist and a Certified Wellness Coach with a passion for helping others manage stress, chronic pain, and anxiety. Learn more about her journey and wellness practice that offers natural solutions to stress at www.AtTheHeartofWellness.com.

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Disclaimer: The information contained in this document is for general education purposes only and is not intended to treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical conditions. Check with your health practitioner before making diet and lifestyle changes.

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Realistic Ways to Set Goals With Discovery Questions

Do you write out your goals? This is the time of year that you may start to think about goals for next year and changes you want to make for your health, career, family, etc. Honestly, I really don’t enjoy setting goals but it is a necessary evil especially for business owners. Setting intentions or goals are extremely helpful when tracking progress for yourself and in business. Looking back at old journal entries are so amusing because it is interesting to see how much things have changed in my life.

Setting goals are a good exercise to help uncover any chronic patterns or bad habits that you still struggle with. It can be a very positive or negative experience depending on how extreme you get. I was always taught to set small and realistic goals so you don’t get too overwhelmed or disappointed if they don’t come to fruition. There are some helpful questions that I use with coaching clients to help discover what they need to work on. This may help you in figuring out some goals to work on for next year.

Discovery Questions to Reflect On

If you could wave a magic wand, and really get what you want in the next 6 or 12 months, what would that look like?

When you reach this goal, what will having that do for you? Think about how this will positively affect your life and why it is important to you.

What’s stopping you or slowing you down from having the desired outcome right now? Think about any roadblocks that you struggle with.

How has that impacted your daily life (work, relationships, finances)?

How does it make you feel? Does it make you feel better or worse?

What is your stress level on a scale of 1-10? How does it manifest in your body?

What do you do to pamper yourself and unwind? How often?

Is there anything that you’d like to be doing for yourself that you’re not?

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Setting Goals By Category

Goal setting may be easier to organize by category. Pick one and just start writing!

1. Health & Fitness

2. Career

3. Relationships

4. Social Life

5. Personal Development

6. Spiritual

7. Financial

8. Giving


Committ to a Plan

Think about how committed you are to make changes.

What would happen sooner or later if you don’t make these changes?

What do you think the cost would be if nothing changes?

Think about healthcare costs, time, money, and how these issues would affect your family as well. No need to overwhelm yourself! I suggest reflecting on 1 category at a time.

Simply write down in a journal what you want to happen and then add a short term time limit like 3 months. You can even come up with a shorter or longer time frame. That’s up to you. I suggest reading your goals on a daily basis to remind yourself of what you want to accomplish. Visualize the outcome and start making changes.

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Take some quiet time and write down some goals you may want to accomplish this upcoming year. I am going to work on exercising more consistently and try to get to the gym 4 times per week. Please share one goal you would like to work on. Sometimes, you just need a little help and someone in your corner to help you overcome those obstacles that are holding you back from enjoying life and being the best version of yourself.

If you would like some help, set up a complimentary Discovery Call with me today!

xoxo

Jill DeMasi is a Lifestyle Blogger, Licensed Massage Therapist, and a Certified Wellness Coach with a passion for helping others manage stress, chronic pain, and anxiety. Learn more about her journey and wellness practice that offers natural solutions to stress at www.AtTheHeartofWellness.com.

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Disclaimer: The information contained in this document is for general education purposes only and is not intended to treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical conditions. Check with your health practitioner before making diet and lifestyle changes.

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7 Strategies to Survive the Holidays

The Holiday season is here and I already notice a rise in anxiety levels with myself and others around me. I absolutely love Christmas and the joy and happiness that comes along with it. It is, however, difficult sometimes to stay present and joyful when you experience anxiety in any form. There are ways to enjoy the holidays without having too much anxiety.

 

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Survival Strategies for the Holidays

Get Enough Sleep.

The amount of sleep you get affects your health and your weight. Research shows lack of sleep stimulates appetite and cravings for high fat, high carbohydrate foods (WebMD). When we’re tired we tend to make fewer healthy choices, and we reach for the quick-fix energy boost we need, often in the form of sugar-filled options and processed snacks. Furthermore, we also tend to skip the workout we had planned for the day when we’re tired.

Sleep can also affect your immune function, the aging process, memory, learning, and metabolism. Set a goal of what time you need to be in bed each night to get the 7-9 hours you need. Try it this week and see if you notice a difference in your energy levels and your eating habits.

Check out 15 Ways to Promote a Refreshing Night of Sleep.


Cook More Meals at Home.

This time of year you get invited to parties and events a lot more. When possible, try to cook as much as you can at home so you have a better chance of maintaining your weight and not gaining. Not only do you tend to eat healthier, but you can also save time, money, and calories. It’s easier to eat healthy when you’re the one selecting the ingredients and preparing the meals.

What one action step can you take this week to prepare more meals at home?


Practice Self Care to Reduce Stress.

Let’s face it, this time of year is stressful for many reasons. High-stress levels are not only harmful to your health, but it’s also harmful to your waistline as well. When you are constantly under stress, hormone levels, like cortisol and insulin are elevated. The elevation of these 2 hormones can sabotage your weight loss efforts and actually cause weight gain. We aren’t meant to be under constant stress and it takes its toll. If you are doing everything right as far as diet and exercise but you’re under stress every day, you’re not going to see or feel the results you want.

What are some ways you can reduce your stress levels?

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Eat More Whole Foods.

Real food is unprocessed or minimally processed. If you’re not sure, ask yourself if the food is something you would find in nature. Real food comes packaged with vitamins, minerals, antioxidants, and other nutrients our bodies need to thrive. These are the types of foods that give us energy instead of leaving us feeling hungry again a short time later.

What whole foods can you add to your diet this week? Some examples include Vegetables, Fruit, Nuts, Seeds, Legumes, Animal protein, and Seafood. Check out my post 6 Healthy Eating Tips.


Get in the Holiday Spirit!

Watch Holiday movies and TV Shows and listen to Christmas tunes. This always lifts my spirits and helps me to not stay in an anxious mood. Some of my favorites are Frosty, Rudolph, Elf, A Christmas Carol and It’s a Wonderful Life. Doing these things always makes me feel like a kid again too and that makes me happy!


Socialize. Plan to see your friends and family.

As an introvert, there are times I need to just be left alone but I also love being with family and friends too. If you need alone time schedule it. If you want to boost your mood, there’s nothing like being around supportive and loving people and engaging in a fun activity. Or even better visit someone who is lonely like the elderly or help out at a homeless shelter.


Shop Online.

If you really dislike going out to the stores like me, get your shopping done online. It’s quick and easy and saves you from dealing with the crazy crowds and bad mood that follows. Click here for my self-care gift guide. Treat yourself to something nice too. There’s nothing wrong with allowing yourself some gifts this time of year!

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Helping Others Through the Holidays

Stay positive and remember to count your blessings and be grateful. There are so many people out there who suffer alone through the holidays. As always, helping someone in need is a quick way to get out of your own funk.

The best advice I heard about how to deal with people during this season was at church last week. The priest said we need to see God in everyone we encounter, even the difficult people! We never know what someone is going through so let’s give each other a break, be kind, and spread joy and smiles wherever you go. Merry Christmas and enjoy the Holidays with your loved ones 🙂

xoxo

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Jill DeMasi is a Lifestyle Blogger, Licensed Massage Therapist, and Certified Wellness Coach with a passion for helping others manage stress, chronic pain, and anxiety. Learn more about her journey and wellness practice that offers natural solutions to stress at www.AtTheHeartofWellness.com.

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Disclaimer: The information contained in this document is for general education purposes only and is not intended to treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical conditions. Check with your health practitioner before making diet and lifestyle changes.

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Live Your Best Life – Reasons to Hire a Wellness Coach

 A Wellness coach guides their clients to live the best version of themselves.  At some point in life, we all need a little extra help to overcome the obstacles.  Suffering from Anxiety or struggling with chronic pain or illness? I know how you feel. My personal journey has been tough. However, I have come out the other side and want you to as well.

Have you ever thought of getting help and just didn’t know where to start? Besides being a Licensed Massage Therapist, I am also a certified Whole Health Educatorâ„¢ and Wellness Coach.

My holistic approach focuses on the whole person which includes discussing lifestyle habits and the 5 Aspects of Whole Health including Physical, Emotional, Nutritional, Environmental, and Spiritual™©.

First, coaching sessions are customized for the client’s needs and have an emphasis on stress management. You may be thinking well what does that even mean? Let me clear it up a bit for you.

The Whole Health Coach interacts with their client in a mindful and respectful presence. In other words, the coach invites the client into the center of their healing process. Similarly, information is shared with clients at the level of understanding they are most comfortable with.

Moreover, a “big-picture” concept is the healing strategy that is used. For instance, the Wellness coach encourages the client to identify their needs and make changes they feel are appropriate.

Primary Tasks of a Wellness Coach

1. Provide a clear & simple explanation of the body systems & their relationship to the body as a whole.

2. Share the research of stress research pioneer, Hans Selye, MD, Ph.D., on stress adaptation. Also, teach the anatomy, physiology, and nutrition of how human beings adapt to their environment.

3. Act as an information resource, affording the client a wide range of information on current research, treatments, and self-care. The Whole Health Education® model does not direct the client by suggestion, recommendation, advice, or conclusion.  This model invites them to discern with his/her physician, family, partner the strategy or strategies that, for the client, foster natural compliance.

4. Facilitate their client’s ownership and understanding of the cause and effect of health and disease. Also, simplifies health information so the client can make clearly informed health care decisions. Then the client can make transformational changes.

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Someone in Your Corner

In my practice, I offer services geared towards middle-aged women who are overwhelmed with stress, anxiety, and suffer from chronic pain. 

I teach them how to deal with the emotional struggles of having pain, anxiety, and a powerful mind/body connection.  Therefore, the goal is for clients to manage stress better, gain a positive outlook, and age gracefully without depending on drugs. Above all, this type of transformational Coaching offers natural solutions to stress and chronic pain.

Sometimes, you just need a little help to help you overcome those obstacles that are holding you back from enjoying life. Learn how to overcome Anxiety and cope with the struggles of having chronic pain and illness. 

Set up a complimentary Transformation Discovery Call with Jill DeMasi today!

Jill DeMasi is a Lifestyle Blogger, Licensed Massage Therapist, and a Certified Wellness Coach with a passion for helping others manage stress, chronic pain, and anxiety. Learn more about her journey and wellness practice that offers natural solutions to stress at www.AtTheHeartofWellness.com.

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Disclaimer: The information contained in this document is for general education purposes only and is not intended to treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical conditions. Check with your health practitioner before making diet and lifestyle changes.

Roots of Illness- Part 2

There are many origins of disease in the body.  Functional medicine philosophy is finding the root causes of disease.  Let’s look at additional roots of illness I learned about in my NIWH course presented by New York Times -bestselling author, lecturer, and practicing physician Mark A. Hyman, M.D. Each of these can be explored separately in the future because there is just so much more information to know and understand. In case you missed it, here is the first post about the Roots of Illness.

4 Causes of Disease

Gut and Digestive Health

Gut problems are the most common reason that people go to the doctor. Problems in the gut are usually connected to some other underlying issue in the body. The digestive system’s job is to keep out the bad bacteria and let in the good healthy nutrients. If there is damage in the digestive tube then the nutrients cannot be assimilated and absorbed.

Bacteria in the gut have many purposes which include digesting food, producing vitamins, regulating hormones, excreting toxins, and making healing chemicals. Diseases can arise with unresolved issues in the gut.

An excess of allergic foods like wheat, corn, dairy, soy, eggs, yeast, bacteria, and parasites are damaging to the intestines because they are all inflammatory.

A leaky gut is when toxins, foods, and bacteria leak into the bloodstream and then cause illness. A low fiber, high sugar processed food diet will cause this to happen.


Toxic Load

Toxins create a burden and eventually cause break down in the body over time.

Being exposed to mercury, mold or other chemicals weaken the immune system and overload the liver which is our detoxifying organ.

Lack of activity will slow down blood flow, circulation, and lymph flow so that toxins will remain in the body and not be eliminated.  Lack of sleep and constipation will also slow down the elimination of toxins and is harmful to your health. Therefore, an abundance of toxins can most definitely result in the disease process. 

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Creating Energy

Our bodies need energy consistently throughout the day so that our cells and organs can work appropriately.

The mitochondria are the place in the cell that burns food and oxygen to make us energy. This area is easily injured by toxins, infections, allergens, stress, and eating too many calories.

It affects our metabolism and can quickly lead to burn out, make us age more quickly and feel tired and also produce aches and pains. Exercising in a smart way helps to create more energy otherwise it is just another negative stress on the body. Not getting enough nutrients – vitamins, minerals, water, oxygen all affect our energy production.


Mind-Body Connection 

Our attitudes, social network, community, and spiritual beliefs all have a role in affecting our biological systems. In other words, the body affects the mind and the mind affects the body.

Imbalances in hormones cause digestive issues, depression, anxiety, degenerative, and other chronic diseases. As well as vitamin and mineral deficiencies, food allergies, and heavy metal toxicity.

There is a chemical reaction when we have a thought or emotion and it gets communicated to the rest of the body and can cause both positive and negative physiological consequences.

For instance, changing your thoughts, relaxation techniques, good sleep patterns, and building a solid social network are all ways to balance out the mind and body. 

Hyman, M. (2032) Functional Medicine NIWH media course. The Seven Roots of Illness. Retrieved from http://www.classroom.wholepersonhealthcare.org

Make Healthy Changes & Prevent Disease 

It is good to take into consideration all of these roots of illness.  Above all, prevention is the key to avoid disease.  Tell me what are some ways you can make some healthy changes in your life to avoid aging and disease?

xoxo

Jill DeMasi is a Lifestyle Blogger, Licensed Massage Therapist, and a Certified Wellness Coach with a passion for helping others manage Stress, Chronic Pain, and Anxiety. Learn more about her journey and wellness practice that offers natural solutions to stress at www.AtTheHeartofWellness.com.

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Disclaimer: The information contained in this document is for general education purposes only and is not intended to treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical conditions. Check with your health practitioner before making diet and lifestyle changes.

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