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How Stress Affects Your Mind & Body

As a Massage Therapist, I see every day how STRESS affects people’s emotional and physical health. For a long time, I didn’t realize how much chronic stress impacts the different systems of our body.  Have you ever considered how lifestyle choices plus stress can lead to mental and physiological conditions and disease?

What is important to understand is that there are 5 ways that stress affects both your mind and your body. You have more control over your health than you think!

Physical Signs of Stress

Our bodies are able to adapt to a certain level of dysfunction and has an amazing ability to manage some stress for us. There are many signs of distress in our bodies before we suffer from an injury, condition, or disease.

Physical signs of stress include body aches and pains, limited movement in joints, weakness, fatigue from lack of good sleep, brain fog, digestive issues, or decreased energy levels and stiffness. Please don’t fall victim to thinking these symptoms are always related to age. It is critical to have an awareness of how stress is affecting your health and to know that you are in some control of what happens.

  • Doing a little movement every day is helpful to combat stress because it releases those happy hormones. 
  • Sit outside in nature. You will be surprised at how much of a positive impact this can have.
  • Have a daily stretching routine. This will help with flexibility and helps to detox the body as well.

Emotional Check In

The emotional responses of stress can be irritability, frustration, anger, anxiety, and depression. Not expressing your feelings and holding stuff in can lead to all of these outcomes.  There are many positive and healthy ways to deal with emotional stress.

  • Talk with a trusted friend or loved one or find a support group, coach, or therapist. Everyone needs a little extra support once in a while to overcome obstacles.
  • Say positive affirmations. Write them down and repeat daily. Doing this consistently helps to break the negative thought patterns we all tend to have sometimes.
  • Start a daily breathing practice.  Take some deep breaths in and out. This helps to stop that fight or flight response and a simple way to shorten anxiety attacks.
  • Try meditation, prayer, and gratitude practice. Just a few minutes to yourself to quiet your mind is helpful to cope with stress. There are many great apps out there to help with all of these.

Food is a Stressor

Do you know that nutrition is a chemical stressor to the body? Consuming a diet full of sugar, white flour, processed foods, and gluten is highly inflammatory and can make your joints and muscles stiff and tense and cause weight gain. They are also traced back to many chronic illnesses as well.

  • Try an elimination diet. Cut out those inflammatory foods and notice increased energy and better sleep. Eating less processed foods will help to improve digestion and when the gut is healthy you are less likely to have issues in other areas of your body.  You can still enjoy treats but try to limit them. I know it’s hard but your body will thank you for it!
  • Contact a trained Dietitian to get some additional help with which foods are good for your body type. This will help you get on the right path as opposed to falling prey to the many fad diets out there.
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Your Environment

The environment we surround ourselves in can cause a huge amount of stress. At times, we all have work and family stress. Where you find yourself every day has an impact on your health. You always have a choice whether or not to stay in a toxic environment.  We definitely can’t change our families but we do have the choice of who we spend time with. Having a loving and supportive social network is proven to reduce stress.

  • Make an effort to surround yourself with the positive people in your life and limit the negative interaction.
  • Find something to laugh at every day.
  • Schedule fun activities into your calendar to give you something to look forward to.
  • Limit chemicals in your home. Look for natural cleaners that have fewer chemicals. You would be shocked at how these chemicals cause havoc on the nervous system which affects all other systems of the body.

Keep the Faith

Having solid values and spiritual beliefs goes a long way in helping to reduce stress. It takes away the fear and worries you may have or at least puts things into perspective. Being hopeful and understanding that everything happens for a reason has been tremendously helpful in my own battles with stress. Negative thinking perpetuates more negative stuff to happen. Nurturing a positive mindset helps to manage stress levels.

  • Figure out your purpose. Having a purpose in life and helping others has really made it so much easier for me to function.
  • Live in the moment. Be present with yourself and others and be aware of what’s going on around you.
  • Have a spiritual practice. Whatever this means to you. Believing in a higher power keeps stress from becoming overwhelming.

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The Big Picture

Once I had an understanding of the 5 Aspects of Whole Health™© that I learned in coaching school, my perspective changed tremendously.  As a refresher, those are: Physical, Emotional, Nutritional, Environmental, and Spiritual. They outline a big picture of how everything is connected and are all equally important in how they impact health and disease.

Stress can be so harmful if it goes untreated. By just being aware of how stress affects you is the first step. Knowledge is powerful! Try to incorporate more self-care and stress management into your daily life. I promise by doing so it will help you become the best version of yourself and will improve your overall health and mindset. What is one way you are going to manage your stress today?

Jill DeMasi

Jill DeMasi is a Lifestyle Blogger, Licensed Massage Therapist, and a Certified Wellness Coach with a passion for helping others manage stress, chronic pain, and anxiety. Learn more about her journey and wellness practice that offers natural solutions to stress at www.AtTheHeartofWellness.com.

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Disclaimer: The information contained in this document is for general education purposes only and is not intended to treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical conditions. Check with your health practitioner before making diet and lifestyle changes.

Time to Spring Ahead

Happy Spring! I had to take a little break from Blogging for a few weeks but I have definitely missed it! I needed some time away. In addition, I needed to take care of some things in my life. I needed a break and time to breathe. This is a very busy season in the massage therapy field. My practice is blessed with amazing clients. I am so grateful that I love my job and get to help people every day.

To be honest, I have struggled with aches and pains due to Lyme disease and Fibromyalgia that I just can’t ignore anymore. These pains have made it more difficult to work. It is time for me to slow down with massage therapy which makes me sad but it is what’s best for me at this time.

Spring is a Time for Change

After a lot of thought and prayer, going forward, I will only see massage therapy clients 3 days per week. I have wanted to build my practice in different areas for a long time. This seems to be the best time to do so.

For a while, I have been looking for additional therapists to join my practice who offer different therapies and have the same philosophy of care. I am happy to say that I now have 2 amazing therapists who use my office on the days I am not there. God is GOOD!

I can now spend more time on blogging, expanding my coaching business, and growing my corporate chair massage business. Most importantly, I will have more time to take care of my family.

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Moving Forward

Spring is a time to be more active and feels like a time to renew and restore. Are you doing anything in your life to restore your energy and body? What about achieving your goals and dreams?

As a Massage Therapist, I see all sorts of clients for many different reasons but the number one reason is for Stress Management. My favorite topic! We all suffer from it and somehow we still survive. It is just a matter of finding what works for you. Is there anything in your life that you want to change but are afraid to?

Change is not easy ..believe me! With the right support, positive attitude, and faith you can make anything a reality.

Give Yourself a Time Out

Who would love a time out — but not like the one we got when we were kids! A time to vacate our lives for just a moment or maybe even longer to enjoy a real vacation.

Time outs are great to reconnect with yourself, God, loved ones and maybe even those activities you love doing but haven’t made time for.

Remember that self-care list I shared a while back? Take a look again and pick out a few to try out this week. When you slow down and find quiet time, you will notice that the answers you are looking for seem to just come to you more easily. During this Spring season, take care of your needs so you can have the energy for all you need to accomplish.

Tell me what you decide to do for yourself! Even better, send me some of your ideas so I can try some new ones myself!

As always, please reach out if you need some extra support and a Coach in your corner to help you move forward with your goals and dreams 🙂

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xoxo

Jill DeMasi is a Lifestyle Blogger, Licensed Massage Therapist, and a Certified Wellness Coach with a passion for helping others manage Stress, Chronic Pain, and Anxiety. Learn more about her journey and wellness practice that offers natural solutions to stress at www.AtTheHeartofWellness.com.

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Disclaimer: The information contained in this document is for general education purposes only and is not intended to treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical conditions. Check with your health practitioner before making diet and lifestyle changes.

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How to Figure Out Your Purpose

What is your purpose in life? Have you figured it out yet? Sometimes it takes a while to know what it is and it may change over time depending on your circumstances. You may face some challenges in life that lead you to your purpose like I did. Having sustained a back injury in my twenties led me through the medical community with no results and landed me in the alternative medicine world. And this is where I discovered my purpose of wanting to help others who are suffering in pain live a better quality of life.

Long story, very short…overcoming struggles are how I figured out my purpose. This is not to say you have to go through a hard time first but it definitely humbles you and makes you appreciate your life and health a lot more. Having a purpose helps you survive this crazy world and keeps you going.

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First and foremost — do not put a great amount of stress on yourself to figure this out quickly. The journey to realizing your purpose is a beautiful one, so soak up every moment of it! You may already have an idea, or know, what this is — and in that case, great for you! There are probably many different things you are passionate about in life. What topics get your emotions flowing? Anger, happiness, excitement — all of the emotions. What brings these up in you? You will learn much about yourself when you consider what topics cause an emotional response in you.

Finding Your Purpose

1. What are you passionate about? 

Continue asking yourself why this is important to you to get to the true answer.  List 3 things you are passionate about.

2. How can you make an impact?

Consider your purpose not being about you, but about the difference, it will make in the world. 

3. What are your skills, abilities, and gifts?

Think about how can you use them to better your life and others around you.

4. Who do I want to be and what result would I like to have? 

Think about your values, goals, and where you want to be in the future. Write a mission statement for your life.

Take Your Time

Remember that taking care of yourself is imperative so that you may accomplish the great things life has in store for you. So take some time to find your passion and your purpose will be more clear. Having a purpose will help you forget about your own challenges and is a key to experiencing consistent joy. Please comment and let me know what your passions are and if you have found your purpose in life!

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xoxo

Jill DeMasi is a Lifestyle Blogger, Licensed Massage Therapist, and a Certified Wellness Coach with a passion for helping others manage Stress, Chronic Pain, and Anxiety. Learn more about her journey and wellness practice that offers natural solutions to stress at www.AtTheHeartofWellness.com.

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Disclaimer: The information contained in this document is for general education purposes only and is not intended to treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical conditions. Check with your health practitioner before making diet and lifestyle changes.

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Stress Management Series: 7 Ways To Detox Your Life

Stress management is an essential part of any wellness program.  Stress can be extremely harmful to our health. Also, lack of self-care, unhealthy habits, poor mindset, unresolved anger, and chronic stress can lead to so many problems in our bodies and minds. The powerful mind/body connection cannot be ignored. If you feel out of control and overwhelmed take a minute to read this. I shared some of my stress management techniques that will help to jump-start your journey to a healthier and happier life.

Natural Stress Management

Spring is a perfect time for renewal and to perform a detox for yourself.  Therefore, it’s a great time of year to think about “spring cleaning” in every area of your life. There are many ways to refresh your life and help you feel like you have some control.  Moreover, when you feel in control, you tend to be able to better cope with the stress that comes along in daily life.

Over the last couple of months, I shared 7 stress management tips from my premium Stress Solution Coaching program. In case you missed it, below is a review and the links to the 7 Ways To Detox Your Life.

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Stress Management Series- Detox Your Life Recap

1. Detox Your Mind

2. Detox Your Body

3. Detox Your Home

4. Detox Your Closet

5. Detox Your Calendar

6. Detox Your Digital Life

7. Detox Your Relationships


Live the Best Version of Yourself

It is good to evaluate where you are at.  Could you be doing better at managing stress?  Take some time to evaluate these stress management steps. I recommend spending time on one tip per week.

What small steps can you take to move closer to a less stressful existence?

Ask yourself… what can I do today to make tomorrow better for myself, my loved ones, and the rest of the world.

If you need some help with managing stress and are interested in hearing more about my signature 6-week Stress Management Coaching program click here!

Comment and feel free to share with me if you have taken any action and what some of your struggles are.

Also, I offer a complimentary Discovery call to explore coaching options.  Check it out and take some action today. You are worth it!

xoxo

Jill DeMasi

Jill DeMasi is a Lifestyle Blogger, Licensed Massage Therapist, and a Certified Wellness Coach with a passion for helping others manage Stress, Chronic Pain, and Anxiety. Learn more about her journey and wellness practice that offers natural solutions to stress at www.AtTheHeartofWellness.com.

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Disclaimer: The information contained in this document is for general education purposes only and is not intended to treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical conditions. Check with your health practitioner before making diet and lifestyle changes.

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How to Detox Your Relationships

We all have a choice in life who to let into our worlds. How do you feel about the relationships in your life and who you surround yourself with? It does get easier with age to recognize who just isn’t going to be genuine or good to be around. What is the saying.. You can pick your friends but you can’t pick your family.

Sometimes we choose people as friends or partners that are not the best for us. Sure, at first they may seem great and provide some kind of entertainment or meet a need for us in that season of life. People show their true colors once you get to know them and some you can trust and some you can’t.

Trim the Tree

I have loved and lost many times including relationships with friends. My closest friends and I have a saying to “trim the tree” if a person is a drag emotionally and just not making an effort in the relationship. Sometimes this is true even if it is family as well.

However, you are better served to make more of an effort to work it out with a family member if possible as long as it isn’t abusive. In that case, do what is best and safe for you. It makes me sad to hear about family members who don’t speak to each other because it is truly heartbreaking and not good for your health to hold onto hate or resentment.

It is a stressor on our emotions and affects our physical health and just plain does not feel good. We all deserve better than that. Yes, you do too!

Surround yourself with positive and supportive people. Your health depends on it!

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Detox Your Relationships

The last tip of this series from my Stress Solution Coaching program is to Detox Your Relationships. Unless you’re incredibly lucky, there is most likely at least one negative relationship in your life. This can be a really difficult subject, but an incredibly important one to consider.

When you read the words “negative relationship” — who comes to mind? Does anyone pop into your mind right off the bat? It could be a coworker, nosey neighbor, friend, or even a family member.

Although we can’t always “detox” these relationships completely, there are ways to readjust and evaluate what is not serving you in your relationships. Luckily, there are plenty of people out there that you can have a healthy relationship with! One of love, understanding, honesty, laughter, and learning.

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Healing and detoxing the relationships that are not serving you is empowering and rewarding — clearing space for new and impactful relationships in your life.

This week is a time of renewal, what relationships in your life need a reconnection or reevaluation?

Take some time and think about it and write a list of energy-draining people in your life. This is a powerful exercise and will open up new and exciting possibilities as well as close those doors that are not healthy for you.

xoxo

Jill DeMasi 

Jill DeMasi is a Lifestyle Blogger, Licensed Massage Therapist, and a Certified Wellness Coach with a passion for helping others manage stress, chronic pain, and anxiety. Learn more about her journey and wellness practice that offers natural solutions to stress at www.AtTheHeartofWellness.com.

Subscribe to my Lifestyle Blog!

 

Disclaimer: The information contained in this document is for general education purposes only and is not intended to treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical conditions. Check with your health practitioner before making diet and lifestyle changes.

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